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It's hard to describe myself…( here’s an honest try... ) I'd like to describe myself as a handsome, intelligent, separated professional black male (6'2" tall), 42. To the best of my knowledge I am an open minded and compassionate human being who is loyal and calm natured...and who enjoys experiencing all aspects of life. I am a bit of a contradiction I suppose - I am very good fun, absolutely love a laugh (and know how to laugh at myself), and a bit of chaos, can be the life and soul of a party, But also like some quiet time, like home life and contentment (never catch me in an apron though!) As for who I'm looking for - someone who also likes a good laugh, and can absolutely laugh at themselves, someone who is good in their own skin and not arrogant, is accepting of others, and can enjoy being out and about kicking up her heels with me as much as she can enjoy hanging out indoors taking it easy. I am looking for someone with whom I can share mutual aspirations and aim to live a well balanced happy life... someone who desires to maintain a fine balance between ease and exuberance and between integrity and sense of adventure. So what am I looking for? Not looking for someone I can live with but rather someone I don't want to live without!.. An impossible dream or not? Do these sites work? I guess you never know until you try! Oh yes just a thought for today,,,, Women are deceived by the unattainable dream of the romantic man (soon she comes to believe that every man is romantic except the man in her life…despite the fact that all her female friends are experiencing the same dilemma); men are overwhelmed because they bear sole responsibility for the romantic shape of their relationship and they are immobilised by this burden. Unfortunately both end up unsatisfied. Let me tell you a secret – most people aren’t romantic. There is no such thing as the ‘naturally romantic’ person – like most things, romance is learned, practiced and perfected, and for those of you who are wondering if I like romance, Yes I do. Xx Just to prove it please see below: A SHORT ROMANTIC STORY A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty. He replied with a “No”. She asked him if he would want to be with her forever. Once again he replied with a “No”. She then asked him if she were to leave him, would he cry? Still the same answer came back... “No”. The girl had heard enough at this point. As she walked away with tears streaming down her cheeks, the boy grabbed her arm & said: "You’re not pretty you’re beautiful. "I don’t want to be with you forever I *NEED* to be with you forever." "& I wouldn’t cry if you left me... I’d die." Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life. You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly. Love can touch just one time but last for a lifetime. It is best to love wisely, no doubt; but to love foolishly is better than not. The heart has reasons that reason does not understand. -------!!!------- Put this on your -------!!!------- page if you ---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!--- know someone in the -------!!!------- Armed forces or just want to -------!!!------- show your support -------!!!------- and respect to all our troops...Thanks they deserve it. -------!!!------- A good friend of mine once told me: ----------------Ladies------------------- ------------are like apples------------- --------on trees.The best ones---------- ------are at the top of the tree-------- -----The men dont want to reach------ ---for the good ones because they ------ -are afraid of falling and getting hurt.- Instead, they just get the rotten apples- --from the ground that are'nt as good,--- but easy. So the apples at the top think -something is wrong with them, when in --reality, they're amazing. They just ---have to wait for the right man to------ ----- come along, the one who's----------- ----------- brave enough to--------------- -----------------climb all---------------- ----------------- the way----------------- Do people actually read these profiles??